Holistic

Trauma Aware

Emotionally Honest

The way you’ve been surviving your relationships ends here.

You’re feeling the tension—in your marriage, in your parenting, in the way you show up with the people you love most. And you’re tired of defaulting to the very patterns you’re desperate to leave behind.

It doesn’t have to stay like this.
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT

Core Relationships Founder

At Core Relationships, we’ll get to the emotional root of these cycles—helping you heal the wounds of the past, so you and your children can experience relationships that feel safe and steady.

Holistic •

Trauma Aware •

Emotionally Honest •

You keep going in circles. Nothing’s working.

Everything feels too much. And you know what you don’t need? Another set of tools that look good on paper but don’t change a thing.
  • You try to stay calm, but you end up snapping or shutting down.
  • You’re doing everything you can to parent differently—but still find yourself saying what was once said to you.
  • You and your partner barely talk unless it’s about logistics.
  • You’ve tried therapy before, but you don’t feel any different than before you …
  • You’re trying to be the cycle breaker, but you’re exhausted.
  • You’ve performed your whole life—and still don’t know how to feel safe being fully you.

You’re not alone in this.

At Core Relationships, we work with people who are overwhelmed by the pressure to hold everything together.

Disconnected from the people they love most.
Stuck in patterns that feel too familiar, too automatic, too hard to break.

You’ve done enough surviving. This is where real healing starts.

Areas of Expertise

We change the game for your relationships
I’ve been in therapy before — how will this be any different?

Many people come to us after therapy that helped a little but didn’t create lasting change. At Core, we focus on what happens between people — and what happens inside you when connection feels hard. Change happens through new emotional experiences, not just new insights.

And if at any point something doesn’t feel helpful, we welcome you to say so. Naming what’s not working is often the most powerful way to get you where you want to go.

We take an engaged, collaborative approach—moving beyond the traditional sterile therapeutic model into a dynamic, interactive dialogue between you and your therapist. With thoughtful insight and gentle encouragement, we’ll help you sit with difficult emotions and examine the core beliefs that shape your life.

Progress in therapy doesn’t always feel linear. Sometimes it means slowing down, noticing patterns, or feeling emotions you’ve long avoided. Over time, you may find yourself responding differently — less defensive, more open, more connected to yourself and others.

You’ll know it’s working when life feels a little less like managing and a little more like living. And if you’re ever unsure, we’ll talk about it — that conversation is part of the work.

Sessions are 50 minutes and typically held once a week. Consistency helps build safety and momentum, especially in the beginning. We meet either in person at our Long Island office or virtually on Zoom for clients located in New York or Florida.

Areas of Expertise

We change the game for your relationships
Individual Therapy
Our individual therapy sessions provide a space where you can explore your inner world and realign with your true values to more effectively manage life’s challenges.
We take an engaged, collaborative approach—moving beyond the traditional sterile therapeutic model into a dynamic, interactive dialogue between you and your therapist. With thoughtful insight and gentle encouragement, we’ll help you sit with difficult emotions and examine the core beliefs that shape your life.
Our individual therapy sessions provide a space where you can explore your inner world and realign with your true values to more effectively manage life’s challenges.
We take an engaged, collaborative approach—moving beyond the traditional sterile therapeutic model into a dynamic, interactive dialogue between you and your therapist. With thoughtful insight and gentle encouragement, we’ll help you sit with difficult emotions and examine the core beliefs that shape your life.
Our individual therapy sessions provide a space where you can explore your inner world and realign with your true values to more effectively manage life’s challenges.
We take an engaged, collaborative approach—moving beyond the traditional sterile therapeutic model into a dynamic, interactive dialogue between you and your therapist. With thoughtful insight and gentle encouragement, we’ll help you sit with difficult emotions and examine the core beliefs that shape your life.

This isn’t just a therapy practice It’s a response to everything we wish we’d had.

Bassy Schwartz, LMFT

Core Relationships Founder

our approach - the core shift

our approach - the core shift

We’re here to help you break up with what keeps breaking down

At Core Relationships, therapy is about identifying the emotional patterns that keep pulling you back into the same reactions, the same disconnect, the same isolation. The ones that leave you feeling unseen, overwhelmed, or stuck in roles that don’t reflect who you really are.
Whether it shows up in your marriage, your parenting, or your ability to feel safe in your own life, our work is about shifting what’s been driving those patterns from the start.
Our team is trained in emotionally focused, trauma-informed therapy that helps you shift the way you show up in relationships—how you protect, retreat, react, or disconnect—because that’s where real healing begins.

This is therapy that disrupts the system.
This is Core Relationships.

Daniella, 29

Single • Emotionally curious • Afraid of repeating the past

Anytime big emotions came up, she shut down. What looked like emotional distance in relationships was really self-protection learned early on: when she showed emotion as a child, it was met with criticism or withdrawal. Somewhere along the way, she internalized the message that her feelings were the problem.


How Core helped:

We helped Daniella trace that story back to its origin—and rewrite it. In therapy, she began to notice her feelings in real time, without pushing them down or rationalizing them away. Slowly, she started to believe that her emotions weren’t dangerous or wrong—they were valid. Human. Worthy of space. That shift helped her soften. Open. And begin building relationships from a place of emotional safety—not fear.

Aaron

Father of 4 • Respected and successful • Struggling behind closed doors

At work, Aaron was confident, decisive, and admired. At home, he felt like a shell of himself—distant from his wife, emotionally unavailable to his kids, constantly hearing “you don’t do enough,” no matter how hard he tried. The more he succeeded out there, the more he felt like he was failing where it mattered most.

How Core helped:

We helped Aaron unpack the quiet shame beneath his success—the belief that showing emotion meant weakness. he reconnected with his emotional world and started showing up in his family with presence, warmth, and depth. The shift wasn’t loud. But it changed everything.

Michelle, 35

High-achieving mom of 4 • Always doing • Always doubting

Michelle was holding everything together. Career, family, marriage. But inside, she felt numb—over functioning at work and quietly unraveling at home. She was scared that, like her own childhood, her kids would grow up not really knowing her.

How Core helped:

We helped Michelle slow down and turn inward. Through emotionally focused therapy, she began to uncover the root of her emotional disconnection and shift the patterns she thought were permanent. She started showing up—not just as a doer, but as a feeler. Not perfect. Just real.

Laura and David

Married with 3 kids • High-functioning on the outside • Strangers in their own home

Laura and David looked like a solid team—but behind closed doors, they barely spoke. Years of tension and misunderstanding had turned into silence, resentment, and emotional distance. They weren’t fighting anymore. They just felt… gone. Both were afraid to admit how far they’d drifted—and what it might mean to try and come back.

How Core helped:

We helped them name what hadn’t been said for years. Using emotionally focused, trauma-informed therapy, we guided them through the walls of defensiveness and avoidance and into the real fears underneath. For the first time in years, they began having honest, vulnerable conversations—ones that rebuilt trust, intimacy, and the sense that they were in it together again.

This isn’t just their healing.

It can be yours too.

THE CORE RELATIONSHIPS CLIENT JOURNEY

Before

“I’m tired of holding it all together. I don’t even know what I’m feeling anymore.”

during

“I didn’t know I was allowed to say that. Or want that”

after

“I can’t believe I used to think this was just about feeling better. It’s about being myself”

We’re not here to bandage the symptoms.We’re here to stop the bleeding—for good.

This is therapy that disrupts the system.

This is Core Relationships.

We’re not here to bandage the symptoms. We’re here to stop the bleeding—for good.

At Core Relationships, therapy is about identifying the emotional patterns that keep pulling you back into the same reactions, the same disconnect, the same isolation. The ones that leave you feeling unseen, overwhelmed, or stuck in roles that don’t reflect who you really are.

This is therapy that disrupts the system.

This is Core Relationships.

You don’t have to understand the pattern to start breaking it.

You just need a space where you don’t have to explain yourself to feel seen—
 and the right kind of support to help you shift what’s never been working.

CORE is where we get to the root,
 and finally rewrite the story.

Financially accessible sessions. Top-Tier Therapy. Zero Compromise

COMMUNITY RESERVE is an internal initiative that allocates a portion of our proceeds to provide broader access to high-quality therapy.